we, women, always have those cliche 3B, beauty, brain, behaviour. me, believe those 3 would come together, evenly. have brain, work your behavior, and you're gonna look good.
coolness? it works beyond that. you should able to embrace it all. embrace all that you do, all that you think, all that you feel, all that you are, include yourself embracing it. once you coped with them all, trust me, people will see you're the coolest.
but we ourselves, just tend to never had enough, don't we :) even after all those coolness. perhaps, just perhaps, those are not the things that really matter.
look at you now, how much you count on your father, how much you admire your kakung, how much you lean on your eyang, how much you have fun with oma, how much coolnesses they show and bring to you.
let me reveal my version how. your father, he's so great at solving problems and taking care of you, us. kakung, is a great adventurer. he seems like knowing all the route to wherever even the slightest, even here in our neighbourhood, not his. and never once, he's forgetting you. eyang, is the most charming of all, even when she did nothing. It really isnt something easy let me tell you, it takes a super power to gather a woman-self that way. oma, such a strong child-like woman that you could just never get bored of. no one can beat her intellectuality to amuse you with even only silly little things. in fact, no one seems able to beat their coolnesses to you. ummm maybe me HAHAHA but im your mother, already am the ultimate coolest of all anyway, am i not xD you tell me kid
